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Dating is tough for everyone, but dating as a transgender woman is even harder. Starting from the early stages of my transition at age 15, through sexual reassignment surgery at 19, to being an out and proud transgender woman at 24—I can say with certainty that I’ve gone out with pretty much every personality type.
Some of my most entertaining stories have come from my dating chronicles, but so have some of my worst.
I needed my friend’s words to realize that even though I didn’t visibly change his ideals in front of my eyes, I did make an impact and he’ll never see trans women the same way.
A few days later, I went on a hike with a dear friend.
I even opened up to him about my fear of men dating me solely to “see what it’s like” to be with a trans woman.
At some point during our hike, he expressed that he was extremely attracted to me, and in some ways scared to like me.
Oh my god, I have a fear about this happening, you should have told me.” I went on to tell him my entire story, including how abnormally normal my life has been as a transgender woman.During our night together, we had one of our deep conversations.He told me, “I’ve seen your hashtags—of course I knew, but I wanted you to tell me.” Having an irregular past of his own, he opened up to me about a night where he was on hard drugs in a hotel room.He told me he was trying his hardest to restrain himself from kissing me for a few reasons.The first is that he was scared we’d have such a strong bond that we’d become a couple.
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After much thought, our conversation for closure came down to two things: His mother and friends would accept me, but his Serbian father never would; and he was afraid of experiencing me sexually.